|—||John Lennon (via psych-facts)|
i passed these three guys while walking down the ave and one of them called out “you have pretty eyes!” and another one said “have a nice day!” is this the catcalling of the future because i gotta be real im pretty ok with it
THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PHOTOSET IN THE WORLD
So for my first “blog post” I wanna talk about the infamous relationship every girl adores, that is Chuck Bass and Blaire Waldorf.. Important stuff, right? I know. Firstly I’m a huge fan of Gossip Girl and of course Ed Westwick, *swoon*. I understand why people love them; the drama, the intense way Chuck looks at Blaire, and how they end up marrying each other in the end… What I don’t understand, however is why girls of all ages LOOK UP TO & long for Chuck and B’s relationship. They were completely dysfunctional together and didn’t always bring out the best in each other, despite the very rare occasion.. What I’m trying to say is, people stop trying to find someone to change! That hot “bad” guy that blows you off yet always knows how to pull you back in.. Or the sexy, slightly snobby girl, who always thinks they’re too good to give you a second look! Why do people put theirselves through that pain and agony over someone who truly isn’t that good for them? I see it all the time (and have even been the girl) where people do it to theirselves.. And as good as it looks on the television, I promise you it’s not nearly as sweet or special in real life. Why don’t we go for the person who actually seems like a GOOD PERSON. Someone we don’t have to necessarily “fix”.
I broke away from the “bad” guy I was with and after him I met a sweet, funny, caring, sometimes a pain in my butt, guy who I have now been together with for almost 4 years, married for a year in a half and he’s the father to my son. I will admit I got pretty lucky to find him immediately afterwards, but I FOUND him. AND HES NOT A TOOL! Lol.
I just want people out there to take a look at theirselves and maybe take time to think about what they REALLY want in a significant other..
Hope this helps for anyone with a bad girl or guy!
Until next time!